No beta 22 'needs' the epsilon 22. It is simply for convenience and clean wiring, but you are correct it does not support a 4 channel build. You probably want to use female sockets as plugs are usually male. Aside from the glassjar kits, you will need audio input connectors, headphone/speaker output connects, a switch to change between multiple inputs if applicable, a mains connector, a switch for mains power, wire, and maybe some other assorted odds and ends. If you do a two case build you will also need an umbilical to carry power from the power supply case to the amp case. There are various B22 FPE templates floating around, but you will have to dig around for them. The group build template is probably a good place to start for a balanced build. Many people, including myself, use the par-metal 20 series cases and replace the panels with custom milled FPE ones.
If you are comfortable soldering I would recommend trying to do this yourself. The documentation at amb's site and support on amb's forum are top notch and should help you through any difficulties.