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That's an unfortunate experience! I can say I've had plenty of bad experiences with doctors as an adult, though. In my own case, I was misdiagnosed a few times too and nearly died from it. Another doctor wanted to perform surgery first before even doing any tests to try to figure out what was wrong. If you watch that show on TV called "Mystery Diagnosis" you'll hear all sorts of stories from people of all ages---children, teens, adults, elderly--- who get dismissed by doctors or ignored and end up in hell because of it.
There's also sexism involved sometimes. As a woman, you'd be surprised how may times I've been told "it's just in my head" or "I'm just being hysterical" or "it's just hormones." You wouldn't expect that in the year 2011.
The bad doctors make the good doctors all the better at least. When you've been in serious pain and ignored, it's like your savior is standing in front of you when you finally get someone with compassion who will listen. I remember most, if not all, of the names of the good doctors I've had.
My father is going through a similar situation, he has back problems and has visited all sorts of doctors from local ones, prestigious ones and the lke. He spoke with a doctor that started an institute for back surgery who told him he should have a big surgery involving screws in the neck, a cadaver bone and 6 months recovery. Mind you, this institute has expanded like crazy in recent years and they go through patients like cattle. After the doctor left the room the nurse told my dad just that; that this place goes through quota's with little regard and based on his test results and history she doesn't think he should go through with the surgery.
As for the sexism, I feel for you on that. The last thing a doctor should do is make a patient feel anymore uncomfortable with the hospital environment there stuck in. Yes, people do tend to grow up a certain way and get themselves stuck in there own little world, but it's no excuse for a professional doctor, check the patients concerns already lazy!!!
I remember the good doctors too. Sadly, if you stop using them for a year or two they don't always remember you. Can't blame a city doctor for it though.












