I got a pair of samson sr850s. They are ultralight and do not seem to bother me. So far at least.
I have found that the best sound setting is the one that interferes the least with the games pure output. So home cinema and straight stereo all the way through after that. Audio creation, bit perfect playback.
I play competition BF. In metro, I can hear them if they are 200 yards on the floor above to the left and even what they are saying.