Yeah, it's really one hell of a mess, isn't it?
And it's not helped by the so-called "high end" manufacturers slapping 3 pin IEC's on everything even if it may in fact qualify as Class II and not need a safety ground. But they slap 'em on or else people will perceive them as "low quality."
I've seen people with Class II gear asking how to ADD one. I always tell them to be thankful they DON'T have one as the safety ground is the single most common source for ground loop problems. And of course most folks think the safety ground has something to do with the proper grounding of their audio gear when it has absolutely no relevance to that at all. Along with those who go pounding rods into the ground in order to give their audio systems a "dedicated ground." You might just as well ground it to the tip of your nose as some copper rod out in the yard.
*sigh*
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