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Originally Posted by
EYEdROP 
I have some local friends who say they are into audio and have "nice" setups at home or in their car. When I hear their systems Im usually very unimpressed. They always have way too much EQ and sound effects. Its like they can't hear all the distortion they are making. And the speaker placements are always ridiculous.
I have a pair of behringer B2031A studio monitors, a velodyne fr-1500 sub, and some acoustic foam on the walls. Deffinitly not the best setup but a well put together budget home studio system. When my friends hear my setup, they seem unimpressed and wonder what the big deal is. " Its not surround", " Not enough bass", "Mine is louder". Again I don't say anything.
How can I help the uneducated consumer audio buff develop a taste for high fidelity audio without seeming pushy?
You can give them a copy of a stereophile type of magazine and Music Direct catalog not really for them to buy stuff but to give them then an idea of what's out there. I have a friend who likes good stereo gear but has no idea of the "cult" of audiophillia. I gave him a copy of Music Direct catalog and it opened his eyes. He never realized how expensive things were and never heard tubes before which is a common lack of knowledge for the general public unless you lived as an adult in the 50s and 60s.
I think if a person thinks his audio system is top notch and suddenly becomes aware of the "hidden" audiophile world, he may rethink his opinion. This can be bad in a way because then the human mind could play tricks on you. One may think, maybe my Mozart isn't sounding at it's proper potential when the person should really be enjoying the beautiful music instead. So in that case, audiophillia awareness can be a distraction and counterproductive.
I will comment that car audio can be highly enjoyable IMO. Yes, it's not the ideal place for serious music but in a closed environment, the car contains the sound waves in a unique way that I admit it can be pleasing even if it is lo fi. I would not try to convert anyone though. I also have a co worker who enjoys listening to music on youtube through cheap stock headphones or cheap computer speakers and he enjoys it. I have in casual conversation mentioned higher quality stereo systems and turntables and but never in a way for him to try to get into buying something. I don't believe in that. Most people actually have simple and somewhat limited taste in music anyway so for them to get into hi-fi when they only own 10 CDs is somewhat ridiculous.
But getting back to your point, if your friend loves his rig, let him love it. I've seen guys with ugly girlfriends and wives and I never question it. What works for you is what matters and happiness is relative.