Hey,
you did everything right, that's good!!
Well, there is one thing you can do...
Listen to cymbals and high pitch sounds, do they sounds muddy or clear, do you hear every single instrument or a "carpet" of sound. I bet you that after some time you can hear the difference.
One thing I did was have a few versions of a song in a separate itunes playlist and shuffle it, so I didn't know which version was playing, then I checked if I was right. But I agree, in the beginning and especially with not so high resolving equipment it can be very hard to spot the difference.
Happy listening,
K