Not all $1,400 speakers are created equal.

I have three pairs that cost less than $1,400, and all three better the HD-800 except for the not-ticking-off-the-neighbors part.
My reference speakers are the Quad ESL-63s. Got them used for about $650. Superior transparency, imaging, soundstage, and, well, everything. They're amazing. Bass is excellent, but they don't hit the lowest octave. That's fine by me since most of my music doesn't need that.
Another pair is a clone of the ProAc Response 2.5 speakers. They cost about $1,000 to build. Excellent speakers with amazing bass. It's hard to believe that you can get bass like this from a 6.5" woofer in a relatively small box. They don't have as much resolution and transparency as the HD-800, but they are nicely balanced and coherent. I love listening to them.
The last is a pair of ESS AMT-1 speakers I got for $300. The AMT drivers are nothing short of spectacular. As much microdetail as anything I've listened to. They fall a little short in integration with the woofers. The stock woofers weren't anything special, but I found a pair of good upgrades for $100. Reworking the crossover with modern materials and damping the cabinet paid off, too. Maybe $500 invested, and they're terrific. Not as cohesive as the ESL-63s, but a very good listen and absolutely better than headphones.
So you don't have to spend $1,400 to better headphones. I was able to do it for $650. And I'd also take the Quads over some pretty expensive hardware I've listened to. They're not going to please everyone and require more upkeep than the average speaker, but they work for me.