Got my mom for you guys. She has: doctorate in audiology, and board certified. You can't get any more qualified than that. Qtips are bad. mmmkay? Don't poke stuff into your ears. Hydrogen peroxide is good, make sure it is fresh (as in not several years old). It will bubble and such, don't worry. After 10 minutes or so you get up, take a tissue, and dry up what drains out of your ear. (note the lack of qtips for that). Most people shouldn't ever have a problem with ear wax. An ACTUAL problem with too much ear wax is when it actually is blocking your ear canal, so that you can't hear very well out of it.
I personally have a birth defect where one ear is slightly smaller than the other (not really noticeable unless you look for it), but it really effects the size of my ear canal and ear wax buildup. I deal with my one ear getting actually CLOGGED frequently, so I use ear removal drops once a week - for just the one ear - to keep it from getting too much buildup. You also have to be careful about using stuff too frequently, can irritate the skin in your ear as well as lead to ear infections/fungus.
On another note, if anyone has further questions about stuff, send me a PM. I'll forward it to my mom and send you the answer.