I looked for a second to find a good link to support it... grumbles. My google fu is weak tonight.
Anyways, to understand why the single resistor works with a balanced amp the easiest thing to do is look at a passive speaker crossover, and a single ended or balanced amplifier (SE=the amplifier drives the speaker from one end, balanced=both ends). If you take this speaker, with a generic common crossover which typically has all the inductors/caps/whatnot on the in phase terminal (and seldom on both... read on) and try it on both of these amps the sound will be identical. The fact that the passive components are in only on one side of the speaker has no bearing on the performance on how the system works.
We could take it a step further and show that with the passive components on the "ground" side of the speaker when driven from the above SE amp there is no audible difference (perhaps put a phase switch in the preamp to satisfy the absolute phase folks) compared to when they are on the "driven" terminal.
Edited by nikongod - 8/18/10 at 8:39pm