The second grommet does not replace the Jack [J5]. It is in addition to it. When you cut the holes in the Altoids tin. The hole is bigger then the knobs and jacks. With the Potentiometers there are knobs that cover up the holes (yes the pots are on the out side). With the input and output jacks there are nuts that cover the holes. With the LED the grommet covers the hole, but nothing covers the power jack hole. If you buy a second grommet you can use it on the power jack hole and it will look a lot better.
When I built mine I was more concerned with cost, so I bought everything from mouser. My cost was like $30-35. I bought plastic knobs and the power jack but it looks like you cannot get it at mouser any more.
If you are going for looks then yes buy the Digi knobs as the do look nice.
In regards to the Opamp, with this Cmoy you can change the opamp anytime you want. They are not soldered in. You can just take one out and pop another one in. So you can buy a couple and see which one you like the best.
With the resistors and capacitors I'm not going to be any help. Just basically the more expensive ones are supposed to be better. I do know that the batteries need to be in a series not just connect to the same spot.








