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Asking about a friend's friend (relationship-related)...how to play my cards now?

post #1 of 31
5/23/10 at 8:31am
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Topic has crashed and burned. Thank you to those who gave helpful and amusing inputs.


Edited by TheMarchingMule - 5/25/10 at 6:13pm
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post #2 of 31
5/23/10 at 9:27am

Honesty is the best policy... Tell her you were interested in meeting her, if she thinks it creepy... she's not the girl for you.

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post #3 of 31
5/23/10 at 9:33am

Indeed, or just say pretty girls/women (age?) make you curious. Just do not ask about relationship status too soon. 

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post #4 of 31
5/23/10 at 9:45am
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Edited by TheMarchingMule - 5/25/10 at 7:28pm
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post #5 of 31
5/23/10 at 9:55am

She's not the best of friends when she stands in your way like that. Think about it..


Edited by moriez - 5/23/10 at 9:59am
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post #6 of 31
5/23/10 at 9:57am

Next time try to go for conversation and (subtle or not, depends) flirting and just have some fun. Good luck...

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post #7 of 31
5/23/10 at 1:36pm

Can you contact the girl in question directly and avoid your friend entirely? If so, email or PM the girl you are interested in and just start up up a conversation. Sounds like your friend maytry and cock block you...LOL

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post #8 of 31
5/24/10 at 1:53am

Yeah, I think you should skip the middle-girl.

Directly approach the girl you are interested in, sms or like.

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post #9 of 31
5/24/10 at 3:01am

Yep, know your body language. I am discovering that body language is one of the most important things in all face to face communications and especially when getting to know other girls/women. If I knew that before...

 

Just have fun and be honest, somehow that works...

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post #10 of 31
5/24/10 at 3:26am
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Edited by TheMarchingMule - 5/25/10 at 7:37pm
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post #11 of 31
5/24/10 at 3:58am

^ Hehe quite the paradox is it? ;)

 

For now I would forget about the 'friend's friend' and first make up with your friend. Perhaps I am looking at this with my Dutch glasses on but I don't see the problem really. Just tell your friend you saw your friend's friend (do they have names? this is getting complicated :p) on facebook and that you would like to get in touch with her.

 

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post #12 of 31
5/24/10 at 4:20am
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[Just like there is no spoon, there is no post here.]


Edited by TheMarchingMule - 5/25/10 at 7:37pm
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post #13 of 31
5/24/10 at 4:43am

First of all, everyone has been in a situation like yours. Not knowing what to do, when you like a girl!

 

how old are you?

If this girl is only your friend, why the hell, she didn't just answer to your question? Does she have a boyfriend? How old is she?

Before making conclusions, I'd like to know a bit more.

The easiest thing, you could have done, is answer point blank that you saw her on facebook and wanted to know her or get in touch since she is her friend too.

Now that you said you wanted to talk to her in person (I believe you are referring to your friend), you have to say more than that.

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post #14 of 31
5/24/10 at 8:37am

Tap that.

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post #15 of 31
5/24/10 at 5:41pm
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[This post made the unfortunate error of dividing by zero.]


Edited by TheMarchingMule - 5/25/10 at 7:36pm
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