
I don't think we agree totally - I think it is absolutely, entirely irrelevant whether they realize what you suggest or not. What is important is if they enjoy what they ultimately choose. Why they choose it and enjoy it may not be something you nor I could grasp, but we can certainly empathize with the concept of "enjoyment".
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It comes down to the age old subjective / objective argument for which there will never be any winner or right answer.
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