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My iPod was smashed to the ground..i couldn't do anything  

post #1 of 94
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...some psycho guy...i didnt return his money around $15...

and he broke my ipod yesterday.....took it and smashed it to the ground in front of me.

i felt helpless for the first time...there was so much rage..i would have killed him..but it would have only led to more problems in life.

my friends were there...they spoke with me..and told me not to take any drastic steps as the guy is psycho and will only coz me harm with no regret.


spoke with him..and the guy is little unstable as his dad was killed in gun shoot.


could have smashed his laptop..which i didnt do..or didnt have balls to do.


so i am feeling like weakest guy on earth rite now.

my friend offered to lend me his 80 GB ipod classic for months..coz he saw me in this situation.


but i still feel terrible ...my beloved ipod...my first ipod....gifted on my birthday..with all my favorite songs, with all my data on it...is gone


its almost like someone u love is taken from u and u cant do anything.
post #2 of 94
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how would u guys handle the situation?


break/steal his laptop and feel better after vengeance?

or handle it diplomatically and get him to return the money for ipod?

the guy is loaded with money but he felt betrayed as i had money and i still didnt give it to him when he need badly.


i am asking here...cause members of this forum are much more mature than people on other forums.
post #3 of 94
Definitely not physical retribution
post #4 of 94
I also hate people that borrow money or whatever no matter the value but are not giving/paying back at first chance possible! Maybe he felt like you do now and chose the wrong option?

That said it´s of course not right to retribute like suggested! How about talking to his parents and try to solve it that way?
post #5 of 94
sense your man hood seems to be in danger for the rest of your life i think baseball bat or such, to laptop would be of good redeeming value ^_^. btw $15 that guy has some serous problems
post #6 of 94
If you are telling the whole story then that guy has got some major issues to deal with.

There is nothing more cruel than breaking a head-fier's iPod. What I think we should do is get a group of 300 head-fiers and bring the fight to him. Our iBuds will block out the sun.
post #7 of 94
Sucks that he smashed your ipod but why couldn't you pay back the $15? Times are that tough?
post #8 of 94
Crazy people!
post #9 of 94
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Originally Posted by Joelby View Post
Sucks that he smashed your ipod but why couldn't you pay back the $15? Times are that tough?
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Originally Posted by krmathis View Post
Crazy people!
i am saving for the fees i have to pay for previous semesters re-exams...told him that too.


cant talk to his family..as his dad was killed in gun shoot.

i can get him arrested and ruin his life..but my friends will all turn against me.

the guy is a psycho.....mainly due to the incident with his father...but that gives him no right to break others property.


i am goin on a 10 day holidays...if he doesnt realise his fault and buy me new ipod.

i ll break his sony VAIO into pieces......even if i lose other friends forever...and if he manages to beat me up..i ll get police involved..




i felt really helpless and that hurt the most than ipod being broken....
post #10 of 94
i dont want to be an ass,but you chickned out.if someone smashes my touch,i would have broken his nose in the same instant,no matter how sycho he is.you had your friends with you so they would have backed you up,and if they were really your friends they would smacked the guy before you did.

I had someone 19 years old cursed me and my parents without any reason just bullying(i am 17),i broke his nose and it was a big fight between me and my friends and his friends and we beat the hell out of them.i am not a bully and i only fight rarely but if i have a right,i wont leave it to rest and wont become weak infront of a sycho.

maybe things are diferent in singapore,but you shouldnt leave your right nor you should call the police,that would be an extreme.the guy may attack you again because he will think you are weak so i say stop him RIGHT NOW.
post #11 of 94
the solution:talk to him and if he doesnt approve to get you a new ipod,fight with him or break his vaio.i dont know what you guys mean by talking to his parents,Nocturnal is a man and he should handle these situations himself.if someone attacked me here in my country and i called his parents,i will lose my friends and respect by everyone.
post #12 of 94
You could file a police report, and only press charges when he doesn't replace the IPOD. If your "friends" wouldn't like you because of this I would question what kind of friends they are. You give him a chance to make right, and if he doesn't..his fault.
post #13 of 94
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Originally Posted by Nocturnal310 View Post
but i still feel terrible ...my beloved ipod...my first ipod....gifted on my birthday..with all my favorite songs, with all my data on it...is gone
The harddisk might still be usable, have you checked this?
post #14 of 94
Sorry mate, but I would have broken your ipod too if I was in that situation. Don't borrow money unless you can pay for it. And an excuse like your exam fees,after your recent posts regarding failing, cramming, and coming here starting random posts (not really random, but more a long the lines of unhelpful and useless posts eg. "is it ok to drink a certain amount of caffine") instead of studying etc...., simply don't cut it. In fact that would probably enrage me even more, I might have even broken whatever headphones you had on hand..

Here's how I figure your convo went:
"hey do you mind if I borrow $15? you're loaded I'm sure its ok"
-"sure just pay me back whenever"
"Hey I have the $15, but I'm saving up to pay for my examfees because I failed my courses. I gotta run, I have to go cram for my exam but I'm going to make sure I post on some headphone forum to waste a couple of hours of my time so that I can get some really good studying done in the middle of the night instead and spend the $15 I owe you on caffeine instead. I'm sure you won't miss the $15, you are loaded, I'll pay you back later"
"......"
Take ipod and smash....

You keep stating you felt helpless, but how helpless did he feel knowing you had his money and squandered it away due to your poor decisions?

I also find it extremely odd that you would borrow money from a psycho. So I'm assuming you are actually either friends (well at least was friends) with this guy, or you are psycho yourself. If you aren't friends with him, then you were asking for trouble. If you are friends with him, then you were asking for trouble based on your decisions and reasoning for not giving him the money right away (see above), and if you are psycho... you now have a psycho friend to talk to.
post #15 of 94
Well again, you seem to be a bit irresponsible. If you didn't have the ability to give him back his 15$ and in addition to that you knew he was unstable (which I don't take your word for it) the it's your fault.

"so i am feeling like weakest guy on earth rite now."
rite=right and many other mistakes that a spell checker could take care of.
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