I was never afraid of commitment; but because I wasn't and am not, I feel less like a man. I never played around either - again, less like a man. My first relationship was at 20-21 and then my second is my wife. I am very happy to have committed, but then again, I never was worried about it. The first I had heard about it was in a movie which said that when you get married, you get only one vagina. I thought, I don't really need another.
That begs the question: how many vaginas are necessary in a man's life?