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post #1 of 37
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i may start liking a girl..her personality and her nature.

but i have this fear..that if i make her my gf...i ll be locked.


i am 20.


do u think its normal for me to play around?
post #2 of 37
No, I don't. (< response to your title question, not the question ending your post)

If you feel that you'll be locked, you might just be locked. Not by her, though, or even by the relationship... but by yourself. If you aren't prepared for a relationship, then you'll probably feel locked in by one.

$0.02
post #3 of 37
I'm 26, i do not condone commitment.
post #4 of 37
Kirosia fears commitment to pretty anything. Just don't get too serious, too quick. And make sure she isn't attracted to either of your parents.
post #5 of 37
I am committed to my headphones. There are many other headphones but this one is mine. Without me, my headphones don't sing. Without my headphones, I don't sing.
Girls? Who needs 'em? You OOXX, get married, OOXX again, kids, conflict, divorce. That's the same. All relationships end in either misery, or FAIL. Sure someday my headphones will die, but hey, at least during its lifetime, it didn't judge me or steal cash from my wallet.

EDIT: to all you married men, divorce while you can. Invent a reason. You'll save yourself a lot of trouble. More, if you have a girl"friend", cut. Ditch. Abandon. Whatever the term. Saves you from the Hell that's marriage.
post #6 of 37
Girl (child/young female) -> Yes
Woman (adult female) -> No
post #7 of 37
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Originally Posted by 3602 View Post
I am committed to my headphones. There are many other headphones but this one is mine. Without me, my headphones don't sing. Without my headphones, I don't sing.
Girls? Who needs 'em? You OOXX, get married, OOXX again, kids, conflict, divorce. That's the same. All relationships end in either misery, or FAIL. Sure someday my headphones will die, but hey, at least during its lifetime, it didn't judge me or steal cash from my wallet.

EDIT: to all you married men, divorce while you can. Invent a reason. You'll save yourself a lot of trouble. More, if you have a girl"friend", cut. Ditch. Abandon. Whatever the term. Saves you from the Hell that's marriage.
Someones a bit sour today. And needs to set their priorities straight....
post #8 of 37
My priority is the military. In a couple of months I'll go off to Boot. Until then, all out on audio gear.
Why military, you may ask. Think WWIII. Think Nukes.

Alright, EDIT: if, for some very good reason I don't make it through Boot, I still have a room full of audio gear so when the Nukes start falling, I can have something to listen to while I... get Nuked.

More EDIT: ignore me. I have said what I wanted to say.
post #9 of 37
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More EDIT: ignore me. I have said what I wanted to say.
...and I didn't understand a word of it.
post #10 of 37
The easiest way to get out of commitment after you've had enough is just tell them you're gay. Well if you're gay, tell them you're straight.
post #11 of 37
lol this is why therapy exists :P Seriously, therapy is awesome. Do it.
post #12 of 37
If she makes you feel like listening to your favourite music on your favourite headphones and more, if she gives you more happiness/joy/whatever you want to call that blissful emotional sensation and she understands your love for the sound of music you might have a winner.

That's all I know...
post #13 of 37
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Originally Posted by 3602 View Post
I am committed to my headphones. There are many other headphones but this one is mine. Without me, my headphones don't sing. Without my headphones, I don't sing.
Girls? Who needs 'em? You OOXX, get married, OOXX again, kids, conflict, divorce. That's the same. All relationships end in either misery, or FAIL. Sure someday my headphones will die, but hey, at least during its lifetime, it didn't judge me or steal cash from my wallet.

EDIT: to all you married men, divorce while you can. Invent a reason. You'll save yourself a lot of trouble. More, if you have a girl"friend", cut. Ditch. Abandon. Whatever the term. Saves you from the Hell that's marriage.
ahh this made me smile
post #14 of 37
Bad advice from 3602. I don't think all girls are to be avoided. I for one, still aiming to make Doutzen Kroes my girlfriend. Then after I'm sick of her, Ima tell her I'm gay.
post #15 of 37
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ahh this made me smile
It made me smile too. I realized that I'm not as pathetic as I thought I was.
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