How to approach women / girls thread - Page 3

Don't tell her that you have $1300 headphones in your pocket.

Also, as toppop said, eye contact is key. It is really good to make eye contact before talking to her if you can.

If you remove the class setting (as I'm out of school), that about covers it for me. Just talk/listen, don't look or dress like a slob, show at least a little confidence, and be kind/nice/respectful/etc. That kind of simple stuff does wonders.

That was meant as a joke.

As for exchanging numbers, email, whatever, just play it by ear. Don't necessarily ask for a number, put it in the context that you want to talk to her again, check out the restaurant she recommended, or anything else to keep the conversation going.

For me, the one you can't stop talking to is the one you should date.

Heh heh, you do not want those girls - they usually come with "a little surprise", if you know what I mean.

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Some of this is a reiteration of what was said before. Make eye contact, introduce yourself, and invite her to some benevolent activity i.e. out for coffee, lunch, etc. Just don't suggest anything that requires anything that could lead to potential intimacy right away. This way, she can maintain some measure of safety and sets a pace. If she suggests something more forward, you may be referring to a clapper from above. LOL Casual meetings are always best. Never pay for her at first. That shows that you're too confident and already taking it down the road to a relationship which could scare her off. After a couple meetings, offering to pay would be a more subtle approach. My rule is: Don't be too aggressive and don't be a *****." Dating is an art and privilege, not a right. Don't reveal too much of yourself to her at first. You need to have a little aura of mysteriousness to you. You don't want to fall into a "just friends" category. If you feel that the relationship is ready to be taken to the next level, you can test this. When going out in public on a date, hold the door open for her and wait for her to pass through. Place your hand on the small of her back as you follow after her. If she shies away, DON'T do it again. She isn't ready and you should wait a little longer. However, if she falls back into you, you're set. You know she has a mutual feeling for you. See where that takes you. Hope this helps. This has worked for me so far. I would have to say the most fun is chasing after a girl and the times you experience with her. Once you're actually in relationship with her, it doesn't quite get you that "high" anymore. It truly is an art.

Just like how men have a ladder rating system for women, women have one as well. Just how high you're placed on her ladder will improve your chances of getting an intimate relationship with her. Here's a little background reading to ensure you don't fall into that "just friends" category.
http://www.laddertheory.com/

Of course the above is what you want to do if you want to start a lasting relationship. If you want a fling, there's some slight variations.

Quoted for truth.

That and you need experience dating to find what you truly are looking for (and what to watch out for) in the other gender.

I have typically found that chloroform works quite well.

Lawsuits or murder typically follows.

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Disagreed.