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post #16 of 156
12/15/09 at 11:51pm
Most importantly, relax.

Second most important: listen to Uncle Erik's advice. Being a gay woman, I'm probably not the best person to give advice to a straight male on straight chicks, LOL!
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post #17 of 156
12/15/09 at 11:59pm
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post #18 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:06am
Authenticity, confidence. Girls aren't shallow like us men, at least in my experience. I generally only date girls that I have known a while, in part because I have been told I am a little eccentric(something that I think some other head-fiers might be, this isn't meant to be an insult in anyway).
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post #19 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:27am
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hahaha that made me laugh ya a lot of men are shallow but I am not one of them :P in my experience I have seen a lot of shallow women much more so then men.
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post #20 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:32am
wait, you are asking a bunch of headphone geeks on "how to approach women"?

good start, i'd say
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post #21 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:34am
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wait, you are asking a bunch of headphone geeks on "how to approach women"?

good start, i'd say
Well...I figure most of the head-fi community is a more mature community chuck filled with adults who can give commendable and insightful advice rather then the ole' 13 year old flame war crap found on most forums.
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post #22 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:45am
if a girl is interested, she will give you a signal in some way (generally subtle though). after that, it's up to you to approach her/start up a conversation.
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post #23 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:50am
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See that is what I suck at...I am very bad at picking up signals and can barely tell what they are.
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post #24 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:55am
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Authenticity, confidence. Girls aren't shallow like us men, at least in my experience. I generally only date girls that I have known a while, in part because I have been told I am a little eccentric(something that I think some other head-fiers might be, this isn't meant to be an insult in anyway).
Bahahahaha. There are many people in both genders are extremely shallow but in different ways.



OP, here is one thing to keep in mind at all times: if are not yourself on the first encounter, do not bother being yourself at all. A polite ass is still an ass. A true man who is polite and has a sense of self worth should never be a poser or act any different to try to attract a woman. If a woman does not like you for who you are, that is their problem and not yours.... unless you are an ass
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post #25 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:56am
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Cucumber. In. Pants.
Wrap it in foil like Derek Smalls.
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post #26 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:57am
"Gimme some sugar, baby..."

-Ash
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post #27 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:59am
"Want to see my portable rig?" usually works fine for me.
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post #28 of 156
12/16/09 at 12:59am
1) Be confident.
2) Be attentive.
3) Look her in the eyes (also helps reinforce #1)

You can catch and hold the attention of nearly any girl you desire this way, in my opinion. Looks are optional. I approached a very attractive stranger in a café even though I was donning an extremely bushy beard at the time (i.e. face hidden), and followed my own advice. I got a date without any problem whatsoever.
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post #29 of 156
12/16/09 at 1:02am
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Bahahahaha. There are many people in both genders are extremely shallow but in different ways.



OP, here is one thing to keep in mind at all times: if are not yourself on the first encounter, do not bother being yourself at all. A polite ass is still an ass. A true man who is polite and has a sense of self worth should never be a poser or act any different to try to attract a woman. If a woman does not like you for who you are, that is their problem and not yours.... unless you are an ass
Ha I am def. not a ass if I was a ass I prob would of had more experience then I have now because girls tend to like guys who are a ass at least until they get annoyed from it
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post #30 of 156
12/16/09 at 1:04am
Who needs women when you have headphones.
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