Being single sucks... - Page 3

^^ Damn, you need Dr. Phil.

u r a virgin?

u like guys?

^ Nothing gets past you, eh?

Enjoy being single for a while, you can really learn a lot about yourself that will make your next (serious) relationship much more rewarding. Also, if you like to read, you can get some good book time in a hell of a lot easier

I am currently in a very intense relationship with the most amazing girl I have ever met, and she just deployed to Iraq on the 5th

He pretty much answered that already...

I like being single, im addicted to the freedom.. not having to call someone to tell them what your doing, or worrying about staying out too late. It's all a balancing act, but when your single you don't have to worry. I mean, it is nice to be in a relationship, but taking a break from them helps you grow as an individual instead of as a couple.

if u r single it doesnt mean u cant get laid. (prudes need not reply)

and if u feel lonely...then u always have friends.

u dont 'need' to be in relationship.

hi

ive now been in a relationship for 4 months, my longest, and im 24 the longest before that was about a week, i was getting to the point where i thought id never find anyone [dont have many mates where i live for intros, been through uni and found no one etc] till i met this girl, and i dont mind saying,.. shes my FIRST. [i was her second] and hopefully only, and im quiet happy for it, ive always been the sort to only want a relationship if i love that person and this girl is the first girl i have loved

i thought i loved someone else but this feeling is so much more than that, its quiet amazing to me, and im very thankful for it, its the only part of my life thats good, but id have all the sh*t for this quiet happily,

i met her on the internet [not what youd think] was on a f1 forum and we chatted, shared msn addys and then numbers for texts, then phone calls, dirty phone calls lol and finally after over a year of hearing from her every day met up for a week down my way for the first tiome,, been amazing ever since

shes my dream girl, tall skinny, green eyes, dark thick hair, but more important, kind, honest, never wants me to get her things, [makes a change] likes same films, music, and motorsport etc, and doesnt think shes attractive, [i hate tarty, shoes, makeup, handbag girls] and ive told her my deepest secrets [and she told me her 'problems' ie slightly depressive, and i wanna help]

point is i didnt think id ever find anyone like that, and it came from the oddest pplace, it really can happen AT ANY TIME!

im under no illusion that im really lucky with this girl, not just a good girl, but pretty much perfect, heck she makes a 200 mile trip to see me every weekend and wont take money for it, i have to force it onto her, one of a kind, i love her

sorry for my ramblings lol

I've seen the effects of living with an abusive alcoholic first hand. Not myself personally; neither my wife nor myself drink at all. I don't because of my families seeming tendancy toward alcoholism and I wouldn't have married anybody who drank for that reason as well. My aunt has married a few alcoholics. She's been single for 15 years now but she's still paying for the mistakes of the past.

Use the time for some personal investigation and growth. You may now have a warped view of yourself because of how the other person treated you. You mustn't see yourself through your former significant other's eyes. You have to get that taken care of so you don't end up like my aunt. Marrying 4 alcoholics through her life. Be glad that you avoided the "I can fix him/her" or "I won't be able to find any better" traps by not staying with this person. Work on knowing what you want, not deviating from those standards, and when you have sorted that out and you're ready put yourself out there. Good luck!

On a brighter side... Consider that a lot of relationships are based on abusive use of alcohol on a saturday's night out. No, I totally know what you mean. Alcohol can be a killer...

As for me, I have been with my girlfriend for a little over 7 months now. I was the barkeeper at a local event. She was one of the singers of a choir. Yep, she sings in a choir and is also into ballet. Sounds boring (and imo is boring) but I love her to death.

I have also thought of relationships to be 'nice' and not 'vital'. Put things into perspective and just enjoy the moment no matter what. Single life can be great as well!

Just my fuze and a decent pair of IEM's is enough for me. Thats my one chance of escapism, theres alot more to the story and its been stressful but slipping into my own little world where no one else can hear what I am is the best.
Just had a chat to the tasty bird in sainsburys and considering asking the girl I'm living with's step sister out for a drink when 'er goes away with her bloke in a couple of weeks time (i bring trouble on myself alot of the time)

The guy who said he met his gal on the net? My past 4 gf have been that way..sounds crap like a nerdy internet freak way of doing it but it was all through friends of friends and stuff with facebook & Msn and the like..yea you get the freaks but even hawt girls use the internet these days and its a great way to get to know someone, you can get all the stuff you wanna say out and when you meet them in person its more relaxed and chilled

Well why not try branching out a bit? Try new things (mind out of the gutter!) Try some new hobbies? Get out and about, meet new people, make some friends, you might even enjoy yourself as a singleton in the process!

i blame QAF, it has a lot to answer for in the image it portrays / portrayed. just encouraged the whole uber gay carp that has become the expected behaviour. all turns into a self fulfilling prophesy