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post #166 of 179

Right...?

post #167 of 179
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Originally Posted by Kirosia View Post

Well what I "want" is just someone who isn't a complete idiot. As for availability... it's worse than you think. Most of the kids my age are married or have children. And stupidity seems to be a serious epidemic. I'm going try to put myself out there, but I'm far from optimistic. 


Where I come from stupidity is endemic, but the girls... oh

post #168 of 179

Sorry, it just irritates me.

 

And I miss my little corner in the basement. Can I come back?

post #169 of 179
It's not necessarily for everyone, and it's not as if there's a perfect, or even beneficial, match for each person. Attaining happiness/being contempt/etc is different for each person. I realised my early attempts at loving another person were for the most part subtle demands of my animal nature. I no longer desire to grow or benefit from others at anything other than a platonic level. I do not think that as a result I might be less capable of loving another person.
post #170 of 179

Being single isn't all that bad. It gives you the freedom to do the things that you want to do whenever you feel like it. I can see how at a certain age, being single can be awkward, especially if your friends are married with a growing family. But don't think you have an obligation to get married. Plenty of people are in lifelong relationships where they aren't married.

 

As a romantic, I see the goodness of having a companion. Someone to share the things you wouldn't normally share with anyone else. Dating is something that I don't have a priority with, but I do make an effort in trying to make connections with women that I'm interested with.  But of course, if you realize that person isn't the one you feel you shouldn't make the commitment with, it can be hard to sever that bond.

 

At 27, I'm still setting up the rest of my life, careerwise. I'm planning to attend, hopefully, medical and become the best doctor I can be. And if life takes a turn, and I experience a connection with someone that carries throughout of the rest of my life, then so be it. So to the original poster, have a little faith. There is that one guy that will make the difference. Until then, have fun, go explore whatever it is in your heart.

post #171 of 179

The freedom of being single has its advantages.

post #172 of 179

The good thing about being single and living alone is you can pass gas as much as you want and you won't feel guilty about it.

post #173 of 179

If a woman has a problem with me passing gas, then she's not a woman I care to be with. 

post #174 of 179

^^Agreed. 

post #175 of 179
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Originally Posted by Kirosia View Post She became very cold towards me, something I never thought a person with any semblance of compassion would do.


This here is my current problem. Except that I'm still dating this person, likely due to my own stupidity, but not because I'm insecure. This is someone who I love, and who always claimed to feel the same way towards me. I'd go into detail, but it's pointless anyway.

post #176 of 179

Good luck and have fun...

post #177 of 179

The grass is always greener on the other side.  After you cross over, you realize it's astroturf.

 

post #178 of 179
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Originally Posted by dj_mocok View Post

The good thing about being single and living alone is you can pass gas as much as you want and you won't feel guilty about it.

 

Well there's certainly that.

post #179 of 179
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Originally Posted by Edwood View Post

The grass is always greener on the other side.  After you cross over, you realize it's astroturf.

 


Nothing wrong with a good boob job, Ed

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