Since you already done your mod, I don't think it'll be possible asking a guide hoe to do it, but I doubt it'll be much difference from the usual dual non-detachable mod. But I was thinking doing a dual mono 3.5mm cable and terminate at the end with 3.5mm? Since don't think the guy selling the cables have those xlr plugs. Or does doing xlr ends have any advantage from using normal 3.5mm mono?
I know you want to help, but I seriously don't understand what you just said(though I do need to read this thread more often), especially the 'leads'(What is that?)