modern methods are very good at separating clock from data.
jitter is a 'scare word' that vendors, these days, use to sell higher priced gear.
I doubt the modern dacs care much about jitter anymore. a lot has happened in the last 15 yrs or so.
as for the fitment of the jack, that means nothing to jitter. unless you are actively tugging on the toslink jack, the jack contributes zero ill affects to jitter. how could it??