The problem isn't actually about the pin showing but rather that the connector doesn't have a recessed area to go into like UE customs. Therefore, if you push the connector upwards, all the force will be applied to the pins instead of on the shell itself. Over time, the pin will give since they are encased in a little bit of plastic.
Here is an example of how far the UE one goes in:

Also, about this thread, I think someone should start a new one with better pics when they get theirs. This thread started off on the wrong foot, and some people are still disgruntled, lol.