I second the e2c vs the se110 and the e2c being better.
However for you, i would look in the for sale forum for a pair of used Sf5 pros. They have pleny of bass, and dont look like a hearing aid.
however they stick our of your ear a bit. But you can flip mod them(just do a search on google for ultimate ears flip mod).
However the tips on the Ultimate ears seem to give people a hard time but you may like them perfectly well.