If I remember correctly Grado did a lot of research to find the proper alloy. They mentioned a particular "porosity" to reduce ringing. I know that you are anxious to use your skills, but it sounds like a lot of trial & error to come up with the right materials. Why not experiment with different types of wood? At least, with most, you will be in the ballpark regarding resonance & I think they would look more exotic anyway. Wood Mikarta is a composite of linen sheets bonded with epoxy,(I think) very dense & very attractive & would be a good material!
Have fun
kev