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Originally Posted by les_garten 
I don't know why he had or has the issues reported on. I will say this, I don't deal with Vendors I don't know off of Ebay. There is no leverage, especially in China. On FleaBay, you can leave FB and put someone out of business if he does it enough. A PayPal payment to Johnny_Come_lately@China.com means you are at their mercy. Other than a Forum, nobody knows about your issues.
Additionally, I have Found that dealing with the East and Middle East means you need to respect their culture. Some of these people are very polite as they cut your head off. Playing a condescending Ugly American gets you TEN steps backward with them.
Don't flame, I am talking perception here. There is a cultural difference between cultures that foster free speech and those that stifle it. What an American might think is reasonable questionsmay be a Beheading offense elsewhere. Americans are known for their Rude behavior the world over. So any forwardness in conversation will be viewed as rude because you are an American, the same question from an Armenian or a Georgian would not be perceived the same.
Now look at Lawrence's Ebay FB, it's good. Everything is a matter of percentages. I must admit, I had already ordered mine when i saw those posts, and got REAL worried. But my experience could not have been better. I opend the box before firing it up, and looked everything over REAL well. It was perfect and delivered early. he communicated to me Saturday and Sunday. Every Email was answered. That was my experience.
I WOULD NOR ORDER OUTSIDE OF EBAY. I am looking at a DV 337SE and the vendors want to sell off Ebay, Forget it, no way I am sending $1000 to someone in China I don't know with Zero recourse. FleaBay ain't perfect, but its all we have.
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I agree with you, but I also see it this way:
A guy orders a zero dac from Lawrence; let’s forget about the guys culture, his background, his hard earned money, his enthusiasm and his expectations. He gets the DAC, and when he hooks it up, his new headphones are fried, Man, he could have been electrocuted !!
Forget about business, to me this is a bloody crime – do you really expect that guy to sit and think how he has to deal with this issue, I mean hasn’t he dealt with it enough? Isn’t it the time for the other guy to be dealt with, and in a manner he should be.
I think it’s really about personalities and not culture, if something like this happened with me, I would never lick his butts just to secure my money, I would surely give him the words and treatment he deserves.
And honestly, I don’t agree when you say, Americans are known for their rude behavior, it’s true that they are mostly straight talker, and I truly believe it helps more than just sweet talking, especially when it comes to business. I mean when someone orders a dac from Lawrence, it’s purely business and nothing do with cultural exchanges..
I don’t know, I might be pulled up for this post, but to me I see how the person must have felt when got that DAC, to me, I would consider his feeling more than I would consider a billion people culture..