I have had nothing but impecable service from Livewires.
I have spoken with Andrew, Martha and John (and one other, sorry I forget the name) and have always had my questions answered, and they seem genuinely interested in accomodating my needs. Service has been prompt, with fast turn around on a refit and remake - the result was WELL WORTH THE WAIT.
They do however do most of their business over the phone, not by email, and so if I email them and don't get a fast enough reply, I call them on the phone. After speaking with them, we all know that they don't have to answer the email if they already answered the question by phone.
I recognize the frustration of having the product incorrectly shipped in a way that can't be tracked, or having a big time difference making phone calls difficult. But your constant pestering them with requests for them to track a package that you KNOW is untrackable would get on ANYONE'S nerves.
You were told how and when they shipped, and shipping was confirmed but can't be tracked past the USA - and on head-fi you have acknowledged that a previous eBay transaction took three months to arrive. Yet, you sound like you expected them to jump on a plane and hunt down the package.
This is not a life-saving medical device we're talking about. If I had been in your situation, I would have asked only for (1) a refund of the difference in shipping and (2) a promise that if they don't show up in the three months (like previous experience) that they would refund you the whole amount. Then I would have sat back and waited, and not made my family check the mailbox every day! I'd bet that if you had politely done that, they might have refunded more than just the difference in shipping, while wishing you to keep the earphones upon arrival. And, I would hope that if the Livewires do arrive some day, that you try them and use them, and send the money back to TTVJ or whomever if you like them.
I will not hesitate to give John and Livewires more of my money in the future. I actually have another new custom order that just went to them today.