I can offer up more prayers, they help a lot during difficult times like these.
I can also share with you that I lost a son at 7 months. We had a 3 year old son at the time, and it stopped us in our tracks... It took us a couple of years to get up enough courage to try again, but we did, and we were blessed with a 2nd son, who is now 10 years old.
Keep the faith, its hard to understand why things like this happen, its nice to know that you have such a great group of folks here supporting you too Michael