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post #46 of 54
LOL! At this point, not being a little college kiddy who's going to cower in front of the big bad professor, I'd rather just have chat with her to find out what she's on about, with witnesses of course. I'd be curious to know why an emailed question about submitting a project due is replied with by threats of criminal charges. It's over-the-top when we're both adults, we both know how to talk.

But Blackboard is so flakey anyway. Most profs know that, and don't rely on it as the "It must be in by 11:59am or you fail" method of submitting projects. Rather most assume that it got eaten by teh internets and simply ask you to re-submit it. After all, if it took an entire semsester you're not going to finish it in 5 minutes.

But also, the Blackboard documentation is clear (but admittedly stupid) over on the Blackboard site. You simply didn't know how to read it. Not her fault, but she should have been more reasonable and just asked her to email it during class. You couldn't have completed it in that two minute window she was waiting for it.

But whether she accepted the project or not, flipping out is just silly, and unbecoming of someone with the title of doctor. She knows how language works. Communication works wonders.

Student unions here are useless for anything but ordering their stupid uniforms and organizing parties. If I got no joy from our conversation, I'd end it before it turns south and ask the family lawyer for advice.
post #47 of 54
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Originally Posted by puiah11 View Post
Well, here's the conclusion to this strange story. The professor e-mailed me back just now and said that I need to "submit" the power point presentation. She said that after you upload the files to the digital dropbox you need to submit them. It turns out the instructions for the assignment were innacurate in regards to how to submit the assignemnt. I'm sending her a written apology. What a mess. Funny thing is though she didn't tell me the instructions were wrong until after I had e-mailed her a few times about the issue.

How embarrasing.
Just wanted to say that I've been shafted by the same silly system several times before. I had one anal professor that gave no leeway whatsoever on late assignments. If it was submitted one minute late, it was an automatic 20% reduction in grade. When I first started taking the class, I was new to WebCT (purchased by Blackboard now, I believe, and works very similarly) and didn't realize the assignment had to be 'submitted' before he would receive the files. Despite my adamantly arguing that the actual file was submitted a full two days prior to the due date, and even then that the 'submission' happened only minutes after the due date, he refused to relent.

Annoyingly inflexible...
post #48 of 54
I also think that those inflexible types see the little college kiddies coming, and take this kind of bullying to mean they're teaching you about life. Sorry, I don't play that game anymore. I don't get into shouting matches, I keep it on the professional level, but I know how we should all treat each other as well. Now that is real life, but those types of proffs have been at it too long to know the difference.

The result is that I've had some disagreements, but I've always kept it on the level, and in the case of a real genuine bully it often throws them off balance when a student is old enough to know what time it is. I've gotta say form my experience this type of prof is few and far between. Usually disagreements can be solved by good old fashioned talking.
post #49 of 54
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Originally Posted by AlanY View Post
In tort law, as opposed to criminal law, assault actually doesn't include any bodily contact. Yes, the law is perverse BTW, in tort law, physical contact is battery.
Or, as my Torts prof used to say, an "unwanted touching."

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I also think that those inflexible types see the little college kiddies coming, and take this kind of bullying to mean they're teaching you about life.
Very good point. I've always marveled at the presumptuousness of the "life lesson teacher." The ones I have come into contact with have all been deeply insecure.
post #50 of 54
yeah, what is up with weird professors? in college there was a prof who on the first day said before anything(in a roman history class..before gladiator was released) " if you are here and are not serious about this class get the f c u k out"
now i can understand him not liking flaky students but was that language necessary? cant he just fail them and have satisfaction from that..i ended up getting a C in that class but who cares..didnt slow me down..
post #51 of 54
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Well I e-mailed the department chair and he responded
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I am willing to meet with you and Dr. x, especially if helps the
two of you reach an amicable closure here. In my experience, it is best
when misunderstandings are settled informally by those involved. At
this point, this is still an informal matter from my perspective, which
means I do not have to make any judgment or take an action unless that
is either requested by you or Dr. x or necessitated by
significant concerns. I hope this will remain the case.

I am generally available on Tuesdays by appointment. I can meet on
Monday morning if that doesn't work for both of you.

Thanks,
D. x
I contacted the professor I was having the issue with an she hasn't responded. From what he said it sounds like he would prefer us to settle the issue outside of his review, which makes the fact that she screamed "police" and "you must meet with chair and me" fairly suspect imo. From what I can tell the professor I had an issue with hasn't requested a meeting with the chair so I don't really know what will satisfy her. I sent her a 2 page apology letter and put it in her campus mail box this morning early, explaining that I was in no way wanting to intimidate her or threaten her and that the times when I entered class last (1 time) it was because of the DST change which I documented and the time I left early was because I thought she had intentionally not graded my project, which I said I was very sorry for and asked for her forgiveness. Hopefully that will put and end to this, but she seems like a loose cannon. I'm going to wait to hear back from her regarding my letter before I contact the chair for a meeting.
post #52 of 54
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Originally Posted by puiah11 View Post
I sent her a 2 page apology letter and put it in her campus mail box this morning early, explaining that I was in no way wanting to intimidate her or threaten her and that the times when I entered class last (1 time) it was because of the DST change which I documented and the time I left early was because I thought she had intentionally not graded my project, which I said I was very sorry for and asked for her forgiveness. Hopefully that will put and end to this, but she seems like a loose cannon. I'm going to wait to hear back from her regarding my letter before I contact the chair for a meeting.
Good call, I bet that will probably make things better. Unless this prof is really really out-there, she should accept your note and not hold it against you.. .thats what i've seen happen
post #53 of 54
From the beginning it seemed like a miscommunication crossed with her having a bad case of PMS
post #54 of 54
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Originally Posted by ken36 View Post
One of the great goals of schooling is not learned in a book. It Is learning how to pick your moments to succeed. Hold em or fold em. Trust me, this is not your moment. Go ahead, suck it up and fold em. Even if you were able to win here, believe me, in the end, you will lose, not only in school, but in life.
To the OP, read these words. Then read them again, and then read them a third time. If you do, you will realize the wisdom of this post. As he said, the goal is to win, not a battle, but the war.
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