The ED-1 Monitor and ED-1 Signature are for the Lambdas and have the 5 Pin Pro socket.
The ED-5 is for the SR-5 and has the 6 Pin Standard socket.
The Lambda Pro Classic and even more the SR-5 already have a very wide soundstage, better than the DT 990 (at least with my SRD-X). I had not the chance to try a DF EQed Stax yet, but several audiophile magazines and Stax dealers claim that the combination of a upper class solid state Stax amp + ED-1 + Lambda Pro gives the soundstage of a concert hall and beats the sh*t out of every speaker set. I think thats over the top, but if it would be only close to the truth, then it would be still very amazing. I think that might be the reason why ED-1s are so hard to get. The last ED-1 Monitor I saw on eBay caused a real bidding fight and the new owner paid about 250 Euro in the end. That was a still a bargain, I've seen much higher prices in the past. Maybe you can reach nearly the same with a good DSP for much less money.
The newer Stax Headphones are supposed to have a DF EQ characteristic build into the driver, so you shouldn't need an extra DF EQ. But as it doesnt harm the headphone someone should try it and tell us if the Omega2 get even better
