wow your post goes everywhere..
anyways, i'll try to produce an answer from all this..
Good choice on your first iem btw. well as you can hear.. Sources sound different.. Obviously your notebook will sound different than you touch. (they have different dacs as well as internal amps.
These phones actually sound like? I don't know..
As you put a lot of thinking into this with putting down your eq settings.. we have no idea how your next iems should sound (as we don't...