Grüß Gott and Schnitzel

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Schwarzenegger goes for President and I ask my question...
The question is a theoretical one:
How to connect a STAX SRM-007t Vacuum Tube Driver Unit Amplifier with an ACCUPHASE D-85 SACD/CD-Player?
Let me explain a little bit:
The amp has, as far as I know, one XLR input and two RCA jacks.
The SACD-player has... I really don't know!!! That's my problem.
But I've heard that you are able to extend the outputs of the DP-85. So it maybe might be eventually the case that the DP-85 has XLR and RCA outputs, too.
If that is the case... what would be the best way to connect the amp with the player... RCA or XLR ?
One last question:
The German magazine "audio" (it's written in German, so Schwarzenegger

probably can read it, too) is convinced, that the cinch cable "audioquest anaconda" is the best over all the other cables.
Accuphase have their own cables for sale... WHAT can a cable do for the sound? Can there be SOOO much difference between them at all... I mean: are you able to hear a really difference, if you already have got high quality components (Accuphase and Stax)?
I thank you very much for reading my words!
Greetings from here to there
Frank, whose family name is an Austrian one and really close to Schwarzenegger